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shake hands. Be considerate

Principal Li Jianwen of Salesian Church Wu Shaomei Secondary School

Someone once asked me, "Principal Li, since you became principal and left the position of 'frontline teacher,' has the distance between you and the students increased? Do you have fewer opportunities to interact with them?"

My role at the school has indeed changed. Over a year ago, I went from being a "frontline teacher" to a "frontline principal"!

Cherish every precious second

Every morning, I greet my students at the school gate. I not only have the opportunity to interact with students every day, but I have also had more and wider contact with them than ever before. My way of greeting them is very simple: I greet them with a handshake.

During my year-long tenure as principal of Salesian Ng Siu Mui Secondary School, I shook hands countless times. The hands I shook varied in size and pressure. Sometimes, the handshake lasted only a few seconds; but sometimes, it led to a precious conversation.

"Measure your heart with your hands" - giving warm and caring love.

Most people view handshakes as a fleeting social obligation, but as an educator, I use this simple gesture every day to understand my students' physical and mental well-being.

Among the countless "handshake tests," the students I encountered generally fell into three categories:

  • A firm and reassuring handshake : The strength of this student's handshake made me both happy and reassured, because I sensed that he was in excellent spirits;

  • A gentle handshake : These students usually look tired. I'll try to find out if they haven't had enough rest. Is it because they've been playing games all night? Doing part-time work? Or is there some other story keeping them up so late?

  • Forcing a handshake and then hastily pulling back : When I encounter this kind of student, I will try to take the initiative to hold their hand firmly. What I need more is to let them feel my care through the strength and warmth of my hand.

If a student is emotionally unstable or has health problems, I can immediately have a colleague follow up and provide timely and appropriate assistance. I also hope that through the "warm touch" of a handshake, all students will understand the school's support and care for them every day, enhancing their sense of belonging to the school family, which will naturally allow them to start each day's learning happily.

Build self-confidence and learn to care

In fact, shaking hands is a basic social etiquette. People use handshakes to express goodwill, and depending on the situation, it can signify acquaintance, meeting, friendliness, congratulations, gratitude, encouragement, support, or condolences. As students who will become the pillars of future society, I hope they can learn and make good use of this friendly communication behavior, build self-confidence, and learn to care for and be tolerant of everyone around them. I firmly believe that this sincere little gesture will nourish everyone's hearts and make tomorrow better!

Principal's Sharing

《教育是從心出發》系列(二):卡片背後的心思
《培育價值觀和態度》系列(二):正面品格,關懷別人
《教育是從心出發》系列(一):給學生的評語
《不一樣的校園》系列(一):善用空間,展現潛能
《不一樣的校園》系列(二):實境學習,認識自我
《培育價值觀和態度》系列(一):多元文化,互相支持
《肯定和尊重》系列(二):握手「量心」,身教言傳
《肯定和尊重》系列(一):和諧共融,關愛無界限
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30 Kwai Hop Street, Kwai Chung, New Territories

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telephone:

2425 8223

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